As a kid, I avoided certain people. They were the kind that didn’t seem to have the capacity to endure the messiness and clumsiness of children. They couldn’t see the intentions of little ones when something got spilt or broken. They were the kind… Continue Reading “Choosing to Release My Pain”
Category: Daily ChoicesTags: Accusing, Anger, Bad fruit, Bitter, Bitter Root, Bitterness, Cruel, Defiled, Faith, forgive, Grace, Grief, Healing, Hope, Hurts, injustice, Let Go, Let it go, Loss, love, Mean, Nasty, Pain, Painful, Redemption, Release, Release it, Resentful, Resentment, Revenge, Root of Bitterness, Sweet Jesus, Trauma, Truth, Unfair, Unjust, Wholeness, Wisdom, Wounds
It’s a condition I have had for many years. I get infections in my colon. They can be extremely painful and put me in the hospital. I have learned to recognize the feeling when it’s beginning and usually have to fight a sense of… Continue Reading “Choosing a Better Option”
Category: Daily ChoicesTags: Addictions, Afflictions, Afflictions of the soul, Comfort, Comforter, Confusion, Drug of choice, Drugs, Emotional Pain, Escape, freedom, Freedom from pain, Freedom from suffering, God of all Comfort, God's love, God's Comfort, Hurts, Infection, Narcotics, Numb, Numb the pain, Pain Relief, Porn, Pornography, Problems, Real Comfort, Self-medicate, Self-Medication, Source of Comfort, Stop hurting, Suffering, Symptoms, Troubles
Posted on July 1, 2024
by Jeff Herringshaw
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My dad turns 86 tomorrow. He and my mom have been living with us for the past several years. And it’s been so good to have them near in this senior season of their lives. They are able to engage with their grandchildren and… Continue Reading “Choosing to Honor My Parents”
Category: Daily ChoicesTags: 10 Commandments, 5th Commandment, Abuse, Abusive Father, Abusive mother, Appreciate, Appreciation, Choose Life, Chosen, Difficult Parents, Father, forgive, forgiveness, freedom, grateful, gratitude, Honor, Honor you mother and father, Honorable, Hurt by my parents, Hurts, I Exist, I was chosen, Life, love, Mother, My Existence, Parental Love, Parents, Respect, Respectful, Thank You, Thank you Dad, Thank you Mom
Posted on March 6, 2023
by Jeff Herringshaw
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It’s a condition that I have had for many years now. I am prone to develop infections in my colon that can be extremely painful. It has put me in the hospital in the past, and I have come to recognize the feeling in… Continue Reading “Choosing a Different Kind of Medication”
Category: Daily ChoicesTags: Addiction, Addictions, Comfort, Comforter, Distress, God Comforts, God's Way, Hurts, Medicate, Medicating, Numb, Over Eating, Pain, Porn, Pornography, Self Comfort, Self-Medicating, Sex Addiction, Soul Pain, Stress, The Comforter
Posted on May 3, 2021
by Jeff Herringshaw
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My stomach muscles tightened as I sat in the YWAM class and admitted to myself that I hated those kids. Before we joined Youth With A Mission (YWAM), I had taught English to middle schoolers at a California inner-city school. My first three years… Continue Reading “Choosing to Forgive When I Don’t Feel Like It”
Category: Daily ChoicesTags: Anger, Betrayal, Bitter, Bitterness, forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Hatred, Hurts, Inner Healing, Moving Forward, Releasing, Unforgiveness